Letters to my X

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Lessons in Actualization

DH, my ex, doesn’t believe in actualization, and that is a very dangerous way to exist. We DO actualize our lives, either by accident or on purpose.  So if you spend your energy focusing on your fears, guess what’s gonna get actualized? The change began when our first child was born… Being a father was…

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Fruitcake

Will I EVER be divorced from this Machiavellian Lunatic!??? He is, once again, contesting his legal responsibility to pay my monthly bills. Yes, almost two years after I filed for escape…ahem, divorce….we still do not even have temporary spousal support settled, let alone the final settlement. Does anyone have any idea why he would believe,…

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Eulogy

Dear DickHead, I have to thank you for killing her, the woman you married, the mother of your children. She was a beautiful, talented woman who knew only how to care for others. She had no idea how to stand up for or by herself, so when you burned her world down and bludgeoned her…

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Lucky Manafort

Lucky Manafort’s ass was saved by a plea deal. DH won’t have any plea deal to accept, and I almost feel sorry for him cuz this is pretty much how he’s gonna look when i take him to court.  Poor guy is either getting the worst legal advice in the universe or he’s as delusional…

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Attention Narcs!

If you think you can “park” communal property in hidden accounts about which your spouse knows nothing and get to keep SHIT when she wakes up to your gaslighting bullshit, think again. California divorce law is perfectly clear, and this isn’t the 1940s…No one’s going to lock me up and take away my rights because…

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Parts Unknown

I just want to get away from everything for a long, long time.  that’s what suicide is: a soul in dire need of escape.  But quite honestly I have no desire to die now that I am not trapped in a hell of my own making.  What I want most is to travel, to spend…

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Face it

I UNDERSTAND THAT YOU ENABLED ME TO LIVE THE LIFE I LIVED…   WHAT YOU WONT face up TO IS the fact THAT I ENABLED YOU TO LIVE THE LIFE YOU LIVED.

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Two sides to every story

Dear DH, I was informed by our daughters that you told them I "did nothing for 20 years" and don't deserve half of "your" money.   Allow me to respond... While you earned the money to pay for our million dollar house, it was I who made it a home filled with love, joy, music...
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Devastation and broken hearts are your fuel…

Fuckboys and Narcs feed on your suffering.  If you find yourself crying on the bathroom floor while the Shithead who claims to love you sleeps peacefully in his bed, that's your clue.  Stand up and get the fuck out.  You are so much stronger than you think and you will never find that out until...